Honors RESEARCH生 is Driven by Late Mother’s Example

2015年4月30日

Skylar永利

An impoverished school on the outskirts of Cape Town, South Africa will soon receive a significant cash gift. It will arrive in memory of Annette 永利 of Lynchburg, Va., who died of a heart attack 3 1/2 years ago at age 52.

It will arrive because Annette 永利, a professional mentor and caregiver, 教她唯一的孩子, Skylar, to look outside herself above all.

"I often would joke about her being a giving tree,韦恩说, who will graduate with honors from Old Dominion next weekend with a degree in 女性's Studies. "She really cared about people and really wanted to help. She got such joy from being able to make a difference to somebody."

永利, whose father died when she was 5, was two months into her freshman year when she lost her mother. 四年后, drawing on memories of her mom to push through heartbreak and depression, 她创造了 项目安妮特 on the crowdsource website Gofundme.com.

永利's plan: help Fezeka Secondary School, where she spent 2 1/2 weeks last year during an independent study trip, 把图书馆装满书.

Her progress: one month after launching 项目安妮特 on March 30, the fund has surpassed its $500 goal and is up to $740. It will take donations into August.

"Despite their surroundings, the kids there are so passionate, they really want to learn," 永利 said. "It really inspired me to think, 'how can I give back from this experience?'"

The immediate success of 项目安妮特 has 永利 enthused about leading future charitable efforts, even as she looks for a non-profit active in women's issues with which to start her career.

"My 'a-ha' moment about women's studies was the spring of my freshman year," 永利 said of adopting her major. "I learned about women's issues on a global level that I wasn't really aware of. I felt like it was a place where I could learn to make lasting change and lasting impact."

Annette 永利's imprint on her daughter began early as she worked in a variety of service-related jobs, modeling selflessness in the Lynchburg community.

"My mom is in everything I do, 以每一种方式,韦恩说, who moved in with her grandmother after her mother's death. "That's why women's studies is so important to me, because activism is a core concept, and that really aligns with how I want to carry myself and go through life."

Struck by her South African students' resilience and desire for education, 永利 heard her mother's call to respond. Nervous about risking failure with 项目安妮特 - "I felt a lot of pressure because I named it after my mom," she said - 永利 nonetheless posted a mission statement and spread the word through social media.

The instant momentum and empowering comments 永利 has received opened her eyes to what she could do moving forward.

"It's taught me just to be confident about what you're passionate about," she said. “在这个例子中, I know I'm not going to change the world, but I really want to make a difference, 即使是一点点."

Whatever the final tally of 项目安妮特, 永利 will move on to her next "passion" with fervor that has impressed Elizabeth Kersey, Old Dominion's assistant to the president for local, state and federal governmental relations. Kersey mentors 永利 through the University's 女性's Initiative Network.

"If you open up the door for Skylar just a little bit, she'll knock it down," Kersey said. "We're going to be reading about her."

现在, 虽然, "walking" with her mom through an emotional commencement on Mother's Day weekend is 永利's first priority.

"We started this dream together, and I've carried her with me till this moment," 永利 said. "(Moving on) will be the first time I'll be starting something without her there. But I know she's always going to be with me."